{"id":1893,"date":"2024-02-06T11:42:49","date_gmt":"2024-02-06T11:42:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/albert-totchilovski.com\/2024\/02\/06\/how-ukraines-surrogate-mothers-have-survived-the-war\/"},"modified":"2024-05-01T07:41:27","modified_gmt":"2024-05-01T07:41:27","slug":"how-ukraines-surrogate-mothers-have-survived-the-war","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/albert-totchilovski.com\/ru\/how-ukraines-surrogate-mothers-have-survived-the-war\/","title":{"rendered":"How Ukraine\u2019s Surrogate Mothers Have Survived the War"},"content":{"rendered":"

When Russia invaded, Ukraine\u2019s once-booming surrogacy industry seemed at risk of collapsing. But surrogate mothers and agencies have managed to continue deliveries, and clients are arriving again to pick up their children.<\/strong><\/p>\n

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After months huddled in a basement to escape shelling, a surrogate mother named Viktoria was able to get her family, and the unborn child she carried for foreign clients, away from the fighting in northeastern Ukraine.<\/p>\n

She could do so, she said, because her employer, a surrogacy agency, had offered financial aid and an apartment in the capital, Kyiv, to ensure her safety and the baby\u2019s. And although she had initially been reluctant to leave her home, Kharkiv, even under artillery attacks, she is now glad to live in relative security.<\/p>\n

\u201cI would not have left if the clinic had not persuaded me,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n

Viktoria is one of hundreds of surrogate mothers who have brought pregnancies to term over seven harrowing months, running for safety as air-raid sirens sounded, surviving in bomb shelters, then fleeing from ruined towns to deliver children for parents abroad.<\/p>\n

Before Russia invaded in February, Ukraine was a major provider of surrogacy, one of the few countries that allows it for foreign clients. After a pause in the spring, surrogacy agencies are resuming their work, reviving an industry that many childless people rely on but that critics have called exploitative and that, in peacetime, was already ethically and logistically complex.
\nSalvos of Russian missiles that hit Ukrainian cities last week underscored the dangerous environment in which the industry operates.<\/p>\n

In interviews, a dozen surrogate mothers said that extra financial support they received had helped assure their own families\u2019 survival by allowing them to leave areas under siege or regularly bombarded with artillery. But the surrogacy industry has also, in some instances, taken mothers into new dangers they would not have faced by staying home, like Russian checkpoints to leave occupied territory.<\/p>\n

Viktoria, like other surrogate mothers who agreed to be interviewed and photographed at a clinic in Kyiv, spoke on the condition of using only her first name. Some of the women had concerns about privacy, and others had security concerns, either for relatives who remain in Russia-occupied territory or because of their own ties there.<\/p>\n

Agencies are also adapting to the war. Besides helping surrogate mothers and their families relocate to safer cities, some have had to come up with ways to care for children as their biological parents struggled to overcome wartime and pandemic hurdles to reach Ukraine. Svitlana Burkovska, the owner of one small agency, Ferta, took infants into her own home for months.<\/p>\n

Fears that the business would unravel \u2014 especially as Russia tried and failed to seize Kyiv in the war\u2019s early weeks \u2014 have proved overblown. Life in western and central Ukraine has largely stabilized despite fighting in southern and eastern regions and the continued risks of long-range missile strikes.<\/p>\n

\u201cWe did not lose a single one,\u201d said Ihor Pechenoha, the medical director at BioTexCom, Ukraine\u2019s largest surrogacy agency and clinic. \u201cWe managed to bring all our surrogate mothers out from under occupation and shelling.\u201d<\/p>\n

But for months, women who thought they would earn money by giving life have had to first protect their own lives.
\nOutside the capital, pregnant surrogate mothers have slept in cars on dusty roadsides while escaping occupied territory, have faced interrogation by Russian soldiers and have lived in underground shelters.<\/p>\n

In the first month of the war, 19 babies born to surrogate mothers for one agency were marooned in a basement nursery in Kyiv. For weeks and months, it was difficult or impossible for biological parents to reach their children in Ukraine, but by August, all of the babies had gone home.<\/p>\n

The war has not diminished the appeal of surrogacy for couples desperate to have children, said Albert Tochylovsky, the director of BioTexCom. \u201cThey are in a hurry,\u201d he said. \u201cTo explain, \u2018We have a war going on,\u2019 doesn\u2019t work.\u201d<\/p>\n

Before Russia launched its full-scale invasion, BioTexCom was impregnating about 50 women per month. Since the beginning of June, the company has begun at least 15 new pregnancies.
\nWith the money that the business brings in, Mr. Tochylovsky said, surrogate mothers have been moved from frontline towns and Russia-occupied regions to safer places, like Kyiv.<\/p>\n

Many women in the business describe surrogacy as \u201cthe job\u201d \u2014 a term that doctors say avoids emotional attachment to the babies they carry. On a recent morning in Kyiv, about 20 women queued at the company\u2019s reception area for checkups or to prepare for a pregnancy.<\/p>\n

All of them had war stories to tell, of close calls and painful losses. All, including Viktoria \u2014 who was carrying a baby for Chinese clients, as many surrogate mothers do in Ukraine \u2014 said they were motivated by money, the love for their own children and the desire to keep them safe. Surrogacy is prohibited in many countries for a variety of reasons, including criticism that it leaves poor women vulnerable to exploitation by clients and agencies.<\/p>\n

Advocates of gestational surrogacy, in which surrogate mothers undergo in vitro fertilization to deliver the babies of clients who cannot have children on their own, say the practice is invaluable to such couples and offers a potentially life-changing sum for surrogates.<\/p>\n

\u201cI do it for money, but why not?\u201d said Olha, 28, who started a new surrogate pregnancy this summer. \u201cI have good health and can help people who have money\u201d and want children, she added.<\/p>\n

Before the war, the business thrived in Ukraine, where surrogate mothers typically earn about $20,000 per child they deliver. The war has made financial security even more urgent.<\/p>\n

One 30-year-old surrogate mother, who spoke on the condition of anonymity because she had evacuated from Melitopol in Russia-occupied southern Ukraine and feared she could be targeted for reprisal, said she credited the job with getting her family out. \u201cWith the help of surrogacy,\u201d she said, \u201cI saved my family.\u201d<\/p>\n

Owing to the nine-month lead time, agencies cannot make snap decisions about continuing or halting the business after developments like last week\u2019s flurry of missile strikes, and pregnant mothers cannot be moved to jurisdictions outside Ukraine that do not recognize custody for biological parents in surrogate births.<\/p>\n

The war has created many new quandaries for the women, clients and medical personnel. Viktoria and her family face one such dilemma: Her payment will help them survive, but it is far from clear where they should go after her recovery from a C-section. The family has remained in the apartment rented by the clinic in Kyiv; her hometown, Kharkiv, is still hit by regular shelling.<\/p>\n

For many surrogate mothers, the question was about where to deliver. Threats included not just fighting, but how the authorities established by the Russian occupation government would handle a surrogate birth.<\/p>\n

A surrogate named Nadia lived in a village in Russia-occupied territory that was not at risk of artillery shelling. But she decided to evacuate to Ukrainian-controlled territory to deliver the baby, lest the biological parents be deprived of custody, and she lose the fee.<\/p>\n

She spent two days with her husband and 11-year-old daughter sleeping in a car on a roadside that is sometimes shelled, waiting to cross the front line.<\/p>\n

Ms. Burkovska, the small-agency owner, went into the war with two stranded surrogate babies in her care. In contrast to most surrogacy agencies, she cares for newborns in her own home before biological parents pick them up. For a time, she had to shelter in a basement with the newborns, her partner and her own children.<\/p>\n

As more babies arrived in the first months of war, she wound up with seven newborns whose biological parents could not immediately retrieve them, as travel to wartime Ukraine became difficult and as some remaining coronavirus restrictions, like China\u2019s, caused delays.<\/p>\n

Ms. Burkovska\u2019s own children helped care for the infants until their parents could get them. By August, most of the parents had arrived to pick up their children.<\/p>\n

A Chinese client with BioTexCom, Zhang Zong, was one of those who struggled to reach Kyiv through travel delays. He said the wait had been excruciating. \u201cI was very worried because of the war,\u201d he said.<\/p>\n

Meeting his 6-month-old son, he said, was both thrilling and a little strange. \u201cI was extremely excited when they let me hug him,\u201d Mr. Zhang said. \u201cHe has been here for a long time and everyone hugs him, everyone likes him, and I am not so special.\u201d
\nBut he added that was only for now. \u201cWhen he grows up,\u201d Mr. Zhang said, \u201cI can tell him this story.\u201d<\/p>\n

Source:<\/em> https:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2022\/10\/16\/world\/europe\/ukraine-surrogacy-war.html<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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